Dear Donnie,

   I got married very young, only 1 year after I graduated high school. My husband is only the 2nd person I've ever been with in my life, so I don't have much experience. We've been married for 5 years now and we have a daughter. I am mostly happily married. Except during our "alone" time. No matter what, he never waits for me to "finish". When he's done, he's done. I really believed this was normal. I thought all guys did this and that it couldn't be helped. When my best friend and I were discussing her new boyfriend, the subject came up and she couldn't believe it! She says it's not normal at all and he's just being selfish. I don't want to say anything to my husband yet because I'm worried he won't think I'm attracted to him anymore if I complain. I need to know if this is normal or if I'm being used.