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Dear Donnie,

   My boyfriend and I have been together a little over a year. On new years, after a few shots his best friend outed him for having a list of all the women he's slept with, and said "it's longer than war & peace". He's only 26, how long can it be? We've never compared numbers, but obviously I want to know now. He won't show me & won't tell me the number. He says it will "really hurt me". The most I got out of him was that it's s number between 5-75. Seriously?? He also said there are some names I may know, and that it's better I forget it. He says he is commited to me and that he loves me so it doesn't matter. It matters to me, especially if I know any of these chicks. I am so mad he feels like he can just keep this from me. Shouldn't I be entitled to know this? I'd tell him if he wanted to know.