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I am having a huge problem with my in-laws and now it's reached a boiling point. I know my in laws have always played favorites with the grand kids. On a rating scale my daughter is a zero to them.  She's only four, well behaved and very loving but its like my in laws don't like her. They don't show up for birthday party's or just drop by to visit. Even when they do stop by its because they need something. And they never even call to see how she is or talk to her but they know everything about the other grand kids and go out of their way to see them. Today I found out that my brother in law, mother and father in law traveled two hours just to see one on the grand kids because he wasn't feeling well. My daughter has been hospitalized before and they never xame by. I have tried making my efforts but they don't care. My daughter once asked why grandma doesn't talk to her and it broke my heart. My husband knows there is a problem yet he refuses to say something and it has caused many fights between us. Do I say something? I have kept my mouth shut for 7 years but I have had it. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.